Do you have a family member or a friend you miss but no longer see? Or do you actually see each other, but you can no longer find the openness and emotional connection you once had?

This book presents different strategies that may be helpful if you would like to re-establish, improve - or end - a relationship. It provides many examples and an array of words and phrases you may use in different situations.

At the end of the book, you will find a checklist with which you may measure your readiness to reach out to the person you miss.

"Throughout the book, the language is extremely felicitous and well-written - it is loving, empathetic, and attentive." Journal of Psychotherapy, No. 1 (2019)

"A wise and important book, written in an elegant, easy-to-understand way, so everyone can benefit."

Line Crump Horsted

"Both the content and the language make the book interesting and instructive. As a reader, you look inwards and think about how you actually deal with your relationships, so you can assess whether you may want to let one go. Even if you decide to let go, there is support to be had. You have a choice, and the book's many exercises can help you make your decision."

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Ilse Sand is a Denmark-based psychotherapist and pastor. She is the author of Highly Sensitive People in an Insensitive World. Her books are translated into more than twenty-four languages.